As someone that has got some aftershave in their is a way. If you have a mail forwarding service (such as shipitto, like i do) have the order sent their from Stirling, Phoenix, CRSW etc.
Then mark the customs form as aftershave balm (instead of splash). You can then send it by US Postal service normal airmail ( i have done this a few times and it works, I always get the mail forwarder to use extra bubble wrap, has arrived safely each time).
I once tried to get the mail forwarder to courier it but the courier (DHL/TNT) refused they must check the package better, so normal US economy airmail is the trick.